Positive Influence
Now we come to the point in which we must break down Influence into two separate catagories, Positive and Negative. Positive Influences are what I wish to pass on with this site, and I believe that to do that one must first pass on information about both the good and the bad.
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Positive Influences are Influences that effect a person's life in a way that best suits them, that makes their life a little better. This can be done in many ways, from grand gestures such as buying someone a house because they needed one or donating a lot of money to a charity or reseach facility so they may be able to find a cure for something, to small actions such as sitting down with a friend or even a stranger and listening to what they have to say. Hearing what is bothering them and maybe, in some way, one may be able to offer their assistance. Our actions in any situation will have an impact on the people involved and it will Influence them in one way or another. Whether it is a Positive Influence is up to you as the listener and the advice giver. One should remain neutral, so as to avoid taking a side to any conversation. Let what is said Influence your words, take in both sides to all things, that way you can always pass on the best and most Positive Influential words you can come to. For even small actions can have the biggest impacts, it's like the saying about tossing a pebble into a pond. "If you toss a pebble into a pond, you can watch the waves from that pebble start out small and watch them gradually grow until they are big waves" That's essentially how Influence works.
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